5 Shirts to Go (or don’t wish your life away)

My Mother frequently counselled me not to wish my life away but of course I ignored the advice.  Finish school, move on from student life at polytechnic to Sandhurst and a career in the Army. In the Army life always moved on, the next posting to forward the career interspersed with marriage and children.  All these were periods of life and events I, and after marriage to Carol, we looked forward to, in effect wishing our life away.

With children grown up and flown the nest long ago and the arrival of a grandchild a new phase of life seemed to be beckoning.  For Carol if manifested itself in changes at the school she taught and disenchant with education as a profession and for me participating in yet another round of expensive IT delivery failures resulting in a feeling of dissatisfaction.  Retirement was calling and like many things in life it seemed to be a long time in coming. Yet again we were wishing our lives away but hopefully for the last time.

We took the decision over a year ago about the timing when both Carol and I moved to a 4 day working week and set April 2019 as the target date for retirement.  Working 4 days a week was revelation, extra day made a huge difference to our domestic and social arrangements. Every week end could be a long week end, Saturdays free of the need to provision ourselves and Sunday no longer a rush to get ready for the next working week.  However, a year is a long time ans yet again we were wishing our life away.

It was with glee that just before Easter I ironed 5 business shirts, my 5 least favourite shirts, one for each day of my remaining work life, each to be discarded in the bin or patchwork box after wearing.  I have had to iron shirts throughout my working life, first in the Army and then in business a pressed shirt was one of many symbols of care about appearance that seemed to matter. To be fair Carol ironed more than her fair share.  Dispensing with he shirts represents leaving the my work life behind.

Memories are made of….. food

On a school Cadet Force camp in the Lake District in April 1973 we walked from Seatoller (the wettest place in England at 123” per year) to Ambleside around Scarfell Pike.  The idea was to camp overnight at Ambleside.  Inevitably given the time of year and start location it rained on us the whole day.  A group of very wet cadets sloshed into the campsite with the prospect of erecting tents and cooking up our evening meal in the cramped conditions of dripping canvas.  Recognising potential mutiny and collapse of morale the Cadet leaders bundled us into a mini-bus and we drove to a café in Ambleside. Etched into my memory is the steaming mound of cottage pie and gravy that was devoured by the “steaming” mass of damp cadets.  It was and remains the best fifty pence I have spent. Haute cuisine it was not but the time, place and circumstances have made it one of a handful of memorable meals.

Other memorable meals include the lunch from the table d’hote menu in a shabby restaurant near the Perpignan station of grilled salmon and hollandaise sauce for 11 francs enjoyed by Carol and I as we waited for a train on our first holiday together .  In the open air on the foothills of Mount Kenya eating grilled trout followed by fresh fruit salad, tinned cream and fresh Kenyan coffee.  All these meals have in common a simplicity of ingredients and place.

Travelling with Betsy we rack up a some memorable meals.  On the first day we arrive in Verdun hot and road weary.  The plan to walk into town is ditched in favour of the small campsite restaurant which has an open air terrace.  A goats cheese salad starter is followed by herb omelette for me and chicken kebobs (straight taken from the menu) for Carol.  All accompanied by salad and frite  and washed down with chilled local rose and cold beer.  Our first long journey, warm evening sun and Betsy set up to welcome us to bed gave the sense of place with simple fresh cooked food.

On a boat trip along the Istrian coast of Croatia we served another simple meal.  The day long trip is around some the bays which are in accessible from the land. There is the promise of grilled meat and fish. I watch with interest as the the crewman/cook methodically arranges hundreds of small fish on the grill.  He spreads chopped parsley, garlic and salt liberally over the little fish. The result is served with fresh tomatoes and bred which we eat from our fingers flinging the tails and heads to greedy gulls who stalk the boat.

A feature of Croatian cooking is grilled meat.  Near Zadar we watch fascinated as a whole cow is roasted on a spit to celebrate a national holiday.  Most restaurants have an open spit outside the entrance, it is a must try.  By the gate of the campsite there is a piggy turning on the spit all day.  Despite assurances that we didn’t need to book the restaurant is crowded and we are given a seat inside – it’s hot and there is a long wait.  One of the waiters, an old gent who moves between the tables in a stooped running shuffle secures us a table on the terrace and eventually the suckling pig arrives. The decision to forgo starters proves to be a wise one. There are 3 huge chunks of meat, recognisable as coming directly from the pig.  Dark seared skin, moist tender meat and perhaps more fat than than we would normally choose, it is gorgeous.  The piggy did not die in vain.  The old gent apologies profusely because he can’t remember what one of the deserts is called, he explains he is 70.  He is charming, humorous and part of the evening.

It is coming to the end of our journey.  We meet Emma and Tom at Venice airport then drive north into Prosecco country.  We are heading for a campsite Riva D’Oro near the small town of Revine.  The campsite is dilapidated but the welcome is warm and we are offered an evening meal.  On the journey up every shop and restaurant is closed and the only refreshment we can find is an espresso and Pringles in a betting shop cafe.  We are hungry and Betsy has no provisions.  Several menu options are offered, one of which is porchetta, a taster is proffered.  The lovely lady running the cafe sets to work on a giant slicer and produces a large plate covered in thin slices of porchetta.  It is moist, salty with strong flavours of pork and herbs, it melts in the mouth.  The choice of supper is made.  We have a convivial evening each with a large plate of the porchetta, with large bowls of salad and frites washed down with a beautifully dry but soft processo.  It is a memorable final night of our holiday and first night in Betsy for Emma and Tom marked by excellent simple food.  

Carol and I are are avowed foodies who have eaten in some fine restaurants.  While we have memories of these culinary establishments we can rarely remember what we ate.  The meals we remember are those with simple ingredients, freshly cooked in memorable surroundings of time place and events.  

Getting Started

Our excitement and anticipation has been rising as the months weeks, days and hours passed since taking delivery of ‘Betsy’ our VDub Campervan in March 18.  There have been a few week end trips but this is the big one, 3 weeks travelling across Europe to Slovenia and Croatia.

It’s an early start from Devizes trundling down to Dover to catch the ferry across to France.  There was then the long journey across Northern France with Betsy eating up the kilometres.  Tired of the endless autoroute we opted to take the backroads for the final stretch of the journey between Reims and Verdun.  Unfamiliar with the new satnav intent on forcing us onto the autoroute and only having a small scale map which had the fidelity of a breeze block showing Reim as a yellow blob we circled the town trying to guess our way onto the back roads.

We always forget just how big France is, a 100km later with the sun getting ready for bed we rolled into Les Brueils campsite.  A joy, a swimming pool and restaurant but small friendly atmosphere.  Too tired to walk into town a very acceptable goats cheese salad, herb omelette and kebab was wolfed down at the on the terrace of the campsite restaurant.